Friday, February 13, 2015

Advancing Technology - Boon or a Bane for leading a Simple Life

Last evening I was reading a couple of articles on "Big Data" by Bernard Marr, Influencer, Best-Selling Author, Keynote Speaker and Leading Business and Data Expert, on LinkedIn May 27, 2013, titled "What The Heck is... Big Data?" and yet another by the same author Bernard Marr, Influencer, Best-Selling Author, Keynote Speaker and Leading Business and Data Expert, on LinkedIn, and this penned in later on Aug 27, 2013, titled  "Big Data:  The Mega-Trend That Will Impact All Our Lives.."

I shared it with a dear friend of mine through mail and this note

Dear Bobji,

I know you do not fancy technology, but, I thought I'll share with you a small document which talks abut a major shift that's taking place in the world of technology. Again in the near future there is going to be a major shake up in the world of computing, and this is what they've names as "Big Data."
This simple article/s will banish the myth.
I'm sure you'll find it interesting.  

Warm regards,
TSK. Raman

He saw it, read and sent me this reponse.

Dear Ramanji:

Thanks for interesting article.  

I am not averse per say for technology developments, but a constant nagging thought is “are we - [A] “mining a lot of data or information?” and – [B] does it lead us to simplifying life!!!

Technological progress has merely provided us with more efficient means for going backwards. Is it of any avail?  

Not everything that can be counted counts and not everything that counts can be counted.

Science and technology in ancient and medieval India covered all the major branches of human knowledge and activities, yet there was a sense of contentment and growth,

Not to belittle developments across the world, what makes it more amusing is:

a. We have more mobiles than toilets - resulting in implicit expectation that you should be able to reach someone when it is convenient for you, regardless of whether it is convenient for them.

b. Multi tasking is a buzz word - We text while we’re walking across the street, catch up on email while standing in a queue – and while having lunch with friends, we surreptitiously check to see what our other friends are doing. We write our shopping lists on smartphones while we are listening to that wonderfully informative podcast on urban beekeeping.

c. Letter writing vs. email - We had to invest some effort in letter writing. We would sit down with pen and paper, or at a typewriter, and carefully compose a message. There wasn't anything about the medium that lent itself to dashing off quick notes without giving them much thought, partly because of the ritual involved, and the time it took to write a note, find and address an envelope, add postage, and take the letter to a mailbox. The very act of writing a note or letter to someone took this many steps, and was spread out over time. we didn't go to the trouble unless we had something important to say. Email’s Indicate immediacy, most of us give little thought to typing up any little thing that pops in our heads and hitting the send button as email doesn't cost anything.

d. Texting and Mobiles - If I may dare say so, they have become modern day dinosaurs. We have in our own lifetimes experienced the Joy of communication over phone. At times exasperating, there was an element of excitement and Joy, today, mobiles have become the " conscience keeper" of Love and Hate.

Texting  by teenagers, precipitate disasters as never before, leading to the current travails of moral turpitude.

Every time I assess and re-check my feelings to validate my intelligence, honestly the summing up would be " we dispatch an email in one way or another, we feel a sense of accomplishment, having achieved something. Each time I do an  Facebook update, I encounter something novel and feel more connected socially in a kind of weird, impersonal cyber way. It is the dumb, novelty-seeking portion of the brain driving the limbic system that induces this feeling of pleasure, not the planning, scheduling, OR higher-level thought centers dwelling into an effort of fulfillment.  
Does modern day technology like email-, Facebook- and Twitter-checking constitute a neural addiction. ?

I enjoyed preparing this response, thanks for the stimulating provided ? 
I am still discovering - whether I am NEUROTIC or ERRATIC, or BOTH.

Regards,
Bob

I acknowledged it this way

Dear Bobji,

I'm more than delighted to receive your response. 

As your style is and has been, profound to someone like me as always, and hard-hitting to the geeks, nerds, and the naive.

You've been slightly diplomatic when you say you are not averse to technology, but for someone like me who fell into the technology hole, if I am not sounding rude, it is a "ditch" which kept sucking me in. Interesting in the beginning for someone with curiosity, but far too hyped, for the comfort of someone like me who was, and still is rooted to reality.    

I can't agree with you more when you say, "constant nagging thought is “are we [A] “mining a lot of data or information?” yes we are, and to my discomfort my privacy is invaded every moment. As for the next "[B] does it lead us to simplifying life!!!" I would say, it isn't, on the contrary it's leading us to more complications. This is also my response to your next statement, "Technological progress has merely provided us with more efficient means for going backwards. Is it of any avail?" 

I would say, 'certainly not.' 

Absolutely true, "Not everything that can be counted counts and not everything that counts can be counted."

I can go on just agreeing with every word of your response, and just murmur within me..."agree, agreed...till infinity..." 

Immense thanks for both your time taken to read what I shared and also for your lucid response. It was  sheer joy, and yet another education. 

Take care. 

Warm regards,
Raman

I thought of sharing this with you for the purity and the clarity of the exchanges, including the thoughts. I trust yu enjoyed reading it through.

Thursday, February 12, 2015

Memories and Lessons from Childhood
February 12, 2015
This is my story till this point of time completely...trust you will appreciate this and send me your likes if you find it was worthwhile... 
Yours truly RAMAN
For more than one reason, I just enjoy going to school. My parents are no more here today to attest what I say, but I have an older brother and an immediate younger sister who will testify what I am saying. I just hated school, and it would give me a nightmare even now if I think about it. I was battling with this guild all the way. However….
Today when I look back at what I learned during my formidable days of schooling, I see the so called punishments from my beloved teachers as great learning in life, for example :
1. Stand up on the bench - Take a holistic view, look at the big picture.
2. Stand with hands up - Aim high, reach higher.
3. Stand facing the wall - Introspection.
4. Stand outside the class - Learn through observation, take a world view.
5. Kneel down - Humility.
6. Become a hen (Murga Bano) - Physical endurance.
7. Clean the blackboard - Forget and forgive, start with a fresh slate.
8. Finger on your lips - Boast Less.
9. Hold your ears - Listen More.
10. Touch your toes - Be flexible & respect elders.
11. An imposition, write down a line 25 times - work towards perfection, improve handwriting.
12. Detained after school - Don't join the rat race, be exclusive.
Wish Those Days Come Back Again
I was a good student, was my father's pet, was mischievous, but not disobedient or ill behaved. Guess these punishments served the right cause, to make me what I am today,. I thanks my parents, teachers, schoolmates, friends, relatives, siblings, spouse and off springs and everyone around me for being there, with of course special thanks to the Almighty for everything. 
Some more thoughts on childhood
Tirukkural by Tiruvalluvar ( a Tamil poet/writer) was written more than 5000 yrs ago. It's one of the ancient science on Hum an behavior , which has not changed in-spite of modern education & technology ! ...
SOME GOLDEN THOUGHTS TO PONDER :-

1. If your child lies to you often, it is because you over-react too harshly to their inappropriate behavior. 
2. If your child is not taught to confide in you about their mistakes, you've lost them. 
3. If your child had poor self-esteem, it is because you advice them more than you encourage them. 
4. If your child does not stand up for themselves, it is because from a young age you have disciplined them regularly in public.
5. If your child takes things that do not belong to them, it is because when you buy them things, you don't let them chose what they want. 
6. If your child is cowardly, it is because you help them too quickly.
7. If your child does not respect other people's feelings, it is because instead of speaking to your child, you order and command them. 
8. If your child is too quick to anger, it is because you give too much attention to misbehavior and you give little attention to good behavior. 
9. If your child is excessively jealous, it is because you only congratulate them when they successfully complete something and not when they improve at something even if they don't successfully complete it.
10. If your child intentionally disturbs you, it is because you are not physically affectionate enough. 
11. If your child is openly defied, it is because you openly threaten to do something but don't follow through. 
12. If your child is secretive, it is because they don't trust that you won't blow things out of proportion. 
13. If your child talks back to you, it is because they watch you do it to others and think its normal behavior.
14. If your child doesn't listen to you but listens to others, it is because you are too quick to make decisions. 
15. If your child rebels it is because they know you care more about what others think than what is right.